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#1281873 02/24/05 03:15 PM
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I was wondering about the tactics for ensuring your WS has ended the A. My wife claims that she has and will not contact him in the future but she is at work now and I have no way of monitoring her email. Asking her to re-iterate all the time seems to go against plan A. I posted my long winded story in "just found out" if you want details

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#1281874 02/25/05 04:06 PM
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Just noticed that your query went unanswered, and that's a bad feeling. You're right that asking her all the time goes against plan A. It's kind of a DJ and it gets tiring for both of you.

I think this is something for you and your W to discuss. What can she do to earn your trust back? It's up to her to earn it, you know.

Can she put spyware on her work PC so that you are emailed a log of her activities each day?
Can her work account be accessed from outside the company and if so will she give you the password?
Will she share her voice mail password with you and allow you to check her vmail?
Will she put an auto-forward on her work email account so that anything from OM is immediately forwarded to you?

I'm sure you two can come up with other ideas.


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