Well, I have been married about 2 1/2 years and my husband has been cheating on me most of those years. I have been very heartbroken every time I find out about his affairs. Well, during all this turmoil I have been talking all this out with a co worker/friend. He is also married. As you can guess we had an affair. The thing is he wants to break it off because he feels guilty. I don't blame him, but it hurts. Its funny that I don't feel any guilt for my own husband. I think its because he has hurt me so bad that any feelings I had for him are slim. I am hurting because I think I have fallen in love with my friend. I guess I am paying for doing wrong. But, how come my husband never feels any pain?