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Question: relationship talk or no relationship talk?
#1313517 02/24/05 09:14 PM
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Greetings all,
I will be posting my situation shortly. However, I do have one question I would like to get a consensus on:

Once separated, should there or should there not be relationship talk? Letters, etc?

On one hand, I feel like the relationship talk just adds more pressure and reminds her of what we aren't now....but then on the other hand, I feel like maybe something will click.

What is the consensus? Interested in hearing some feedback. Briefly, I am 2 months into a separation and there is a OM (that occurred after the separation).

Thanks.
Re: Question: relationship talk or no relationship talk?
#1313518 02/24/05 09:22 PM
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It all depends. If you are the BS, you need to see how you feel first. Do you think that despite the betrayal, you want to continue and stay in the R? It's all up to you. The most important thing, IMHO, is for you to protect yourself from harm.

Let us know your sitch and perhaps, we can give better advice. In the meantime, hugs to you and know that you will be okay..

Allegria
Re: Question: relationship talk or no relationship talk?
#1313519 02/25/05 05:16 PM
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TY Allegria...I will post my story maybe tonight or tommorrow. I read your other posts as well, hang in there!

Anyone else?

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