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Ok, I'm a little confused....
My STBX was driving me crazy with wacky emails and such, well, now I haven't heard a word. I had to send a note to him with my son on Wed. I needed to switch weekends with my STBX because my family is coming to visit and we are also going out of town. I haven't heard a word from him now.
Maybe now he is trying to Plan B me. LOL!!!!!
He did call my son several times yesterday. I don't know what the heck is going on now. UGGHHHH....why do I even bother trying to figure this alien out!!!
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tree are you married to my w too <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> we seem to have similair idiots.
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dalson...I just don't get it! Now we are being put through plan B??? LOL!!!!
I think the OW must have gotten tired of my WH trying to contact me. Who knows!!!
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TR: It's only another attempt to get a rise out of you and/or control you. Don't give the poor sap the satisfaction! It may be time to put your "business-woman" hat on and communicate as such. (Via email in business-like manner.) At least this way you have proof of poor or non-communication. I agree with you & Dalson; Fog has no boundaries! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> FR
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FOG SO THICK U CANT CUT IT WITH A CHAINSAW
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Don't worry about WAH, Tree.
Do you familia thing, and if he shows up to pick up ds, kindly tell him you ATTEMPTED to let him know, but since he didn't respond, you went ahead with your plans.
Period.
He's such a horse's [censored], Tree.
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I agree with all of you. I think he's trying to get a rise out of me or something.
I just really want all of this over with. I want to move on with my life. I'm lonely and tired of all of this! Did I mention I'm lonely? LOL...uuuggghhhh!!
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TR,
High time to use this to your advantage. Ok, you sent a request to the WS. Expect him NOT to answer and then assume you won't switch the visitation.
Here's what I think TR s/d: Go make your plans and do your family thing. When the WS shows up, there s/b either no one home or you surrounded by family.
Either way TR is protected. He wants to have a tantrum, let him. Remind him in front of witnesses that he was informed of the change of plans. He will balk and say he didn't give his approval and you will respond, that's right he didn't give either approval nor denial. His former non responses allowed him t/d whatever, so this w/b handled in a way that is best for the child. AFter all, WS the child s/b the important one in this matter, correct? Seeing family who cares is important. End of discussion.
JMHO,
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Thanks Orchid. That's what I plan to do. I'm going ahead with my plans and if he wants to come over and complain...well...my whole family will be here. I doubt my brother, dad and brother-in-law will be very nice to him if he tries to start something. He hasn't seen them since all of this. Trust me...he doesn't want to either!!!!!!!
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Fishracer+: <strong> TR: It may be time to put your "business-woman" hat on and communicate as such. (Via email in business-like manner.) At least this way you have proof of poor or non-communication. FR </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Just be careful how you address the business letter <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> WW is off her rocker Miker
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Send him a message:
"Qui tacet, consentire videtur. (?) *)
Thanks"
and proceed with your plans.
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*) Silence gives consent.
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LOL...what does that mean????? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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Silence gives consent. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> (He didn't disagree, therefore, he agrees <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ) (That was not my signature in my previous post, but 'note'. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> ) <small>[ February 26, 2005, 08:30 AM: Message edited by: Belonging to Nowhere ]</small>
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