*The light of Integrity* by Heraclitus(greek Poet)

~The soul is dyed the color of it's thoughts.Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the full light of day.The content of your character is your choice.Day by day,what you choose,what you think,and what you do is what you become.Your integrity is your destiny...it is the light that guides your way~

I hope everyone has a safe and peaceful weekend.

O <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />


edited for pesky typos

<small>[ February 25, 2005, 01:12 PM: Message edited by: Octobergirl ]</small>

I like it.

Pep

O, I love it!!!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> The content of your character is your choice. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">AMEN


KY

Thank you for that O.

Hope you have a great weekend too!

Bump for the weekend <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Hey we were bumping at exactly the same moment!

Great minds think alike you know <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

You know it <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

OctoberGirl,

I wanna thank you for your words on my thread, I would like to read your story but can't find it...

October 12, 1968 <---- October Guy
October 15, 1994 <---- October Son
October 11, 1970 <---- October WW


I'm an October Family...

Hi Michael,

October is(still) my favorite month.Fall is my favorite time of year and my Wedding anniversary was in October.My youngest was also born in this month.I also love Halloween,so do my girls.

My story in a "nut shell" is such:

BW(me)39
WH(him)38
Married 14 years,together 20 years
Best Friends(were)
Daughters 2(10 & 13)
Dream Home
Super dog(border collie,Frisbee girl)
DDay 10/11/03
Major False Recoveries= 2 plus several other mini "psuedo attempts"
Plan A,Plan B,now Plan D(I filed)


Tried my best.Read over a dozen Infidelity books,did AD's,did counseling briefly with WH and more on my own,he lied to me and our counselor,could and would not end A with homewrecker,claims he tried 4 times.She lives in another country and was single,29 years old and lived with her parents when she got involved with MY husband.Her parents are the product of adultery too and support my WH and the homewrecker.No one in both our families wants to know a thing about the homewrecker,she is trash.My STBXWH cannot talk to his family about this.They do not support him at all.

Is the A still ongoing? Who knows.If so,they only are able to meet every other weekend now, to my knowledge.They live 7 hours apart.Who knows what they have planned.I honestly do not care what is going on between the two selfish cheaters.I do not want people like them near me or my children.It's over.

Ok.If there is anything else you need or would like to know,just ask,I am an open book. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

O

O-girl I also had the false recovery scenario. My WH didn't have the grit to let go and do the right thing. I think I could have worked towards recovery if he had not procrastinated. The secrecy and deceit continued and I had to get away from it. But isn't it hard when you've got little children?