</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Hi Everyone,

I am new to this site. I am currently nine months pregnant and am due any day now. Since I became pregnant my sex life with my husband has diminished somewhat. He says that he is afraid to have sex with me now know if he will hurt the baby. While I know he has a low sex drive as it is, I've always been understanding to this. I suggested him to use the different methods that are available to him but he says he doesn't want to take any type of medication. Just recently I discovered that he is using viagra. He works very long hours, but when I call him at work he is at his company. During the w/e's he runs his errands but tends to return late. The only thing I can think of is that he is cheating or he looking at pornography. I'm not certain how to address the situation because I was snooping in his things. Right now I'm extremely angry. Pleae advise. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You wrote the above on hurtnheart's thread and I did not want you to be ignored. First, welcome to MB's. Sorry you are going through this while pregnant. If you read some of the stories here, sadly that does not seem to be an uncommon theme. I would suggest you find out for sure what your H is up to and in the meantime try to do a good plan A. I know that will be tough with a newborn but look up kloe72's threads and you will see her FWH came back after the birth of their daughter. Hopefully others can give you tips for finding out what your H is up. I will pray for a safe birth and healthy baby. God bless.