My FWW used to have triggers that would mentally take her mind back thinking of the OM and how wonderful it felt when she was with him. She put on a night gown the other night that she hadn't worn for awhile and it caused her to think of the pain and the tears she had brought me and the family as a result of her serious 8+ months work EA. She remembers wearing it on a night I was completely distraught with pain and tears, so this particular nightgown will always bring her these memories. I don't remember the night since there were so many terrible and tearful nights just like it.

It has been 10 months post NC and I think our recovery process continues in the right direction.

TooSoon