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#1315835 02/28/05 04:36 AM
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still in shock; anyone out there that can relate

#1315836 02/28/05 05:24 AM
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AV -

I can relate. My wife abruptly asked me for a divorce on Thanksgiving night. Completely out of the blue....she moved out the next day to stay in a hotel. I hate to be pessimistic, but because of my experience, I err on the side of infidelity. I found out one week later that there was an EA in full swing that later became a PA...

Even if there is no overt signs presently, you may want to start into plan A....it is a good idea for any troubled relationship....and keep your eyes and ears open. Can you afford a PI?

Hang in there...

TM

#1315837 02/28/05 07:44 AM
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Bad news. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

So what happened?

John

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((((((((((((AV))))))))))))

Probably every BS on this Board can relate. Everybody has the moved out story. My WH walked out of our house 2 1/2 months ago. It still hurts.

Tell us more if it helps.

#1315839 03/02/05 03:07 AM
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Asolutely - every BS in this board can relate - to the pain, the shock, the craziness, the emptiness, the rejection, the sadness. My WW walked out on 2/5, never looked back, and won't. But that story is not the same for most people here. Keep posting, read all of the material you can find here, and buy the book "Survivig An Affair".

You have a LOT of support here, and a LOT of wisdom. Stay with MB, and things will work out.

David


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