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Thank you heartfailure.
I can't wait to talk to my lawyer tomorrow. I'm sure it will make me feel much better about things. I'm so tired of all the threats.
He could take everything away from me and I would still know that I am a better person than him. Nothing he can do can change what he's done to me and his son. He has to live with that for the rest of his life.
I'm trying to do what you said.....vent to friends and MB friends and then be able to "react" more calmly to his craziness. I'm so thankful I have this place to come to.
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Tree, what has happened for him to accuse you of being a bad mum. Is there the slightest possibility your son is being manipulated into bad-mouthing you to his father? Is it just that he feels his son needs a father-figure - someone to look up to (there's a joke!).
Is he making you worry that you really might lose custody? Do you have any concerns about your past behaviour that might make this a possibility? I'm guessing you don't. Your WH is an insensitive *******. His behaviour is appalling but my gut feeling is that in time, when he sees you dating some other guy (cos let's face it, you are quite gorgeous!); when he sees his son building a relationship with your new partner; when the burning desire has diminished from his groin, HE WILL REGRET ALL OF THIS. TT
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