when my husband had this a he after a while confessed in turned P one time in her car he said they started having sex and he got scared and could'nt keep going so they stopped he never...... can this really happen with a male?

It is possible but difficult. I would be more concerned why he was there in the first place. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

i'm trying to bump this up i would like more input.d-day 2 month ago.co-worker he really can't give me an answer to why he was there in her car. says he was a fool.they did talk on the phone alot afterwards tried setting up times to meet to try again but he never did to muck work and school. nc she is on a diff floor now. he will have a new job soon also.thanks LL

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LL,

My opinion is..sure it can. Men are not dogs, they are subject to the same quibbles and oddities as women.

There are several factors that could produce inability to climax. After all..it is generally accepted that A sex is not just the big O..but the cataclysmic..apocolyptic O to end all Os...because of the excitement..because of the looong foreplay of the mind..yet sometimes it just ain't so.

In my Hs case, he surely did like the sex..said it felt good and he wanted to finish, but when OW was done, that was it. You could say..she got off..then got off..and walked away.

He wondered why he couldn't finish as quickly..my bet? alcohol..and too much of it.

If he had finished, he would have liked that too, I'm sure. I'm glad he didn't though..I know it sounds strange, but those post climax intimate moments..are largely neurochemical..I am glad he didn't have "afterglow" with her..I may be dealing with a longer term A had that been the case. Mistaken affection and all that.

Ramblin' thoughts,

Noodle

My FWH told OW (I found an e-mail) that he couldn't act upon his urges because he "couldn't fu** another man's wife in the other man's bed", how magnanimous of him!!!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">when my husband had this a he after a while confessed in turned P one time in her car he said they started having sex and he got scared and could'nt keep going so they stopped he never...... can this really happen with a male? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Absolutely! Can I ask why this makes a difference?

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">i'm trying to bump this up i would like more input.d-day 2 month ago.co-worker he really can't give me an answer to why he was there in her car. says he was a fool.they did talk on the phone alot afterwards tried setting up times to meet to try again but he never did to muck work and school. nc she is on a diff floor now. he will have a new job soon also.thanks LL
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">This sounds a little fishy to me. RU sure about all of this?

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">In my Hs case, he surely did like the sex..said it felt good and he wanted to finish, but when OW was done, that was it. You could say..she got off..then got off..and walked away.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Noodle: Almost fell outta my chair laughing at this! Poetic Justice! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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