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I'm very sad to say that my WH is filing for divorce. He has his first meeting with an attorney today and plans to press forward. I never went to Plan B but I feel like I did a pretty good Plan A. I'm setting him free and want to keep things as amicable as possible for the sake of our 3 small boys. I simply cannot put up a fight - he no longer wants to be my husband, will not consider marriage counseling or anything else except working with me to ensure the well-being of our children and that I receive an equitable share of the assets. I'm moving on... Thanks to everyone that was there for me during those dark 2.5 months after D-Day. I'm stronger for it now and feel better that I gave it my all to save this marriage.
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Please know that I hurt for you and your boys.
This is no doubt the most difficult thing you will ever have to endure. I am two steps behind you and feel incredibly lost at this point but you and I both know that there comes a time when we must pick ourselves up and move on.
Stay strong I will be praying for you.
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VerySad,
I am so sorry you are going through this. My wife is in an EA and we are getting a divorce (it is her 3rd EA in 9 years). She would not go to counseling with me either.
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