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Dakota...again, thank you for responding. I feel lucky to be in my situation. It could be worse. I read it here daily...so it could be much worse. I know that if I was absolutely certain and had proof in 1998 -1999 It would have ended any chance of us having a life together. I have grown so much since then. Am I bitter about my pain? Yes, at times. Would my pain have been different then? No. What is different is how I react and KNOWING what it was like to be divorced from her. The recent lies are a set back. She understands more now. It will come up in therapy for sure....
Her biggest fear is losing me....and knowing that keeps my fear of her not being open and honest there. Reality is...I love her...and while I could find out she's a serial cheater...my love would not change....just my level of pain....
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If/When she slips and tells a unessecary lie try to remeber no matter how much she loves you she is human. As humans we all slip sometimes in one way or another. Part of being human. She loves you and really wants it to work. That is what matters.
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