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Hello to everyone, havent been here since Nov. 04. Click on my name to read my story. Plan A'd, then Plan B'd, WH wrote NC letter. Everything at home has been great...actually better than it had ever been...so I thought! Lies, Lies and more lies! Got anonomous email stating he met her in Jan.! Researched email, was from her! Confronted WH, he tried to lie at first, then admitted! Showed him proof of email being from her (otherwise I would have never known he was continuing the affair) didnt believe it at first! Told WH to leave, says doesnt want to leave, says he didnt believe she was that type of person, says he met her because he missed her! WH says it over (again) My question is he is asking me what he can do to prove it to me and I really do not know whats left for me to believe! Today I get another email from OW friend stating it was from her because she was tired of seeing OW upset all the time! Saying "I" am the one who needs to face the facts that my WH doesnt love me he is just "content" with me and my whole marraige is a lie! I am sorry, but see nowhere else to go with this! What Now???
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Hi sabot,
I went back and read your old posts.
First of all,you need to once and for all block all unwanted spam(read OW and cronies!!!) from your e-mail and then boot WH to the curb of Plan B again.He went back for seconds on the cake and if I were you,I would have no part of it.
Tell the OW and her sidekick to STOP e-mailing you or you will contact the authorities. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> The nerve.....
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Told WH to leave, says doesnt want to leave, says he didnt believe she was that type of person, says he met her because he missed her! WH says it over (again) My question is he is asking me what he can do to prove it to me and I really do not know whats left for me to believe </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Sabot, I am so sorry for the situation that brought you back to MB. What exactly did he mean by he didn't believe she was that sort of person? What? To tell on him??? Are you in a state that would allow you to kick him out and change the locks? Are you in MC still? BTW, the email from OW's friend is sooo laughable! Sending MB hugs your way {{SABOT}}
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Thanks to both of you! I am just in shock with all this ugliness in my life right now! Does anyone here know what my legal rights are as far as the authorities and harassment? And yes, I can kick him out and tried by telling him to leave. He says he does not want to leave and keeps asking me what he can do!! What do I say now?
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