Very weird. This morning, I was thinking about my WH's grandma with whom I had visited twice over Christmas while celebrating the holiday with WH's parents (minus WH). WH's grandma is a very dynamic, wonderful lady who has made a difference in this world for nearly 100 years (she was 6 months shy of the century mark). Anyways, she has been ill since Sept and after e-mailing WH to ask how she was doing this morning, I find out from him that she actually passed away this morning. I know that WH's Grandma loved me and was ecstatic about our bond, our marriage, the life we were living together. As a believer of signs, I am wondering if she was sending me a message/sign wishing the two of us the best. I know it is out there and even though I tend to graze towards science/logic rather than theory, I can't help but to wonder if WH's grandma was trying to tell me something this morning. I still am very unsupportive of the divorce I am going through although I have been very good as of late with moving forward in life. Now, this has thrown me for a loop and I find myself reminiscing more and praying/hoping for us again. It is also ironic that our 5 year anniversary just passed this past Thursday.
Anyone have similar experiences with signs...any inspiring stories or am I just on a rollercoaster again?
Cheers,
K
Me: 28 yo FW
Him: 31 yo WH
Married: Since 6/17/01; Together Since 2/24/00
His Affairs: first with coworker in fall 2003; second and most recent with a 2003 HS graduate he met while she was using a webcam to expose herself online.
D-Day: May 22, 2004. He immediately left and continued his string of lies to me and other significant influences in his life.
Plan A thru Oct 04; Plan B thru Dec 04; Divorce papers served by him a couple days before Christmas; his lies no longer mean a thing as I expose his affairs and the truth in Jan 05. As someone who cares for him, I worry about where he is headed.
