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#1317088 03/02/05 12:34 PM
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JL,

You mentioned to Cindy1970 about some books and a thread that 2Long disucssed regarding the difference between Privacy and Secrecy.I am really interested in this and somehow don't recall seeing that here.

Can anyone post a link or list the books?

Thanks a whole bunch!

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#1317089 03/03/05 01:09 AM
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O,

2long once tried to explain the difference to me and I think it was on that CA thread a while back.

Probably the book which discusses it is on the IloveuIloveu website he often refers to.

Let me see if I can find that thread for you. JL might be referring to a dif discussion 2long was in though.

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Bumped it for you.

You will find the discussion I am referring to from 2long on page 4. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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Thanks weaver! I appreciate it.Hope you(and your sweet DD)are well.Off to work I go.Cya.

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OctoberGirl,

I have not seen ou on my thread in a couple days, Are you upset with me? I have enjoyed your advice and your concern, please come back...Me and Cindy1970 also started a joint thread and we have agreed not to read each others personal journals. We are hoping that the joint thread will be a place where we can discuss things. I am nervous that some of my vents and personal thoughts will make there way back to her thread through other MB's quoting me. I'm thinking of leaving mb for a bit

#1317093 03/02/05 04:31 PM
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It's over here:

http://iloveulove.com/psychology/ps...rence%20Between%20Secret%20And%20Private

I can't remember if it's something that Spacecase wrote himself, or if it's something excerpted from one of the books cited on that link.

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-ol' 2long

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^^bump^^

#1317095 03/03/05 12:17 AM
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Thanks for posting a link 2Long and thanks for bumping up my post CSue. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Michael,

I am not upset at you at all.I have turned my attention to your WW and have zeroed in on her thread and now the dual one.So,I am going to read for a while and just see how this plays out for you two,especially her.I will post to you both if I feel a need to.

Also,I have been dealing with a few over on JFO so I am bouncing back and forth and I just cannot seem to get off this comp! Don't worry.I will be around~

Hoping for the best.

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