I just called the OW's H. Told him everything. Him and OW are back together but he had suspected that OW had cheated on him but he never had any proof. He's going to confront her tonight.

Hopefully I didn't ruin my chances of having OW concentrate of her own H instead of mine but I think OW's H needed to know the truth.

I feel such an adrenaline rush right now.

((((squidges, sweetie))))

YOU TOTALLY DID THE RIGHT THING!

Now...batton the hatches and set your resolve. The A's walls are due to crumble at any time....

Take care of yourself you are in for some rough times. Let us know what happens we are all praying for you. Good job -hard decision to make and hard to actually do.

Good for you. Be prepared for a backlash. The OW will blame you for being evil and spiteful for telling her H. Your H will back her up.

Don't try logic with his twisted accusations. Anything he says will be colored by the intoxication of the affair. You are the devil incarnate. If rainbows shot out of your mouth when you sneezed, you couldn't convince them otherwise.

Serenity. You did right.

Should I expose to OW boss too today? I've now exposed to OW parents and H so those were my main goals. WS and OW work together. Exposure to her boss might not be effective and just add to the wrath.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Bellevue: "If rainbows shot out of your mouth when you sneezed, you couldn't convince them otherwise."</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You owe me a new monitor!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Bellevue: "Serenity. You did right." </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Absolutely.

Just wanted to show you part of another post I made today as food for thought.

I was *chicken* to expose my WxW at her and OM's work.

I didn't want to upset her.

I never did expose.

I am divorced, and she still sees the OM.

So, it didn't make it better in my situation that I didn't expose at work. I'll never know what would have happened.

<small>[ March 02, 2005, 01:46 PM: Message edited by: Was Sad Tiger ]</small>

Belle - "rainbows" You're too, too much, girl!

Indy - what's the current attitude of your H? Still totally fogged? Sorry I can't remember.

WAT

hurtwifefromindy: "Affair exposure 102 - Help Yourself" is a thread on today's GQII Board that deals with exposure.

Was Sad Tiger: What were you doing with a mouthful when you were reading the MB Boards? It's your own fault! Anyway, I self-censored before typing. You just have a dirty mind! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

WAT: <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

<small>[ March 02, 2005, 01:50 PM: Message edited by: Bellevue ]</small>

Belle - Whatever did I say to make you say I have a dirty mind? That was just a very funny thing you said! Rainbows!! lol (Edited to say: Oh, I get it, the 'origin' of the rainbows shifted North.)

<small>[ March 02, 2005, 01:55 PM: Message edited by: Was Sad Tiger ]</small>

WAT,

About your question referring to WH current attitude?

He is still in the fog. The lunch and dinners have been slowing down between him and OW recently (past 2 weeks) but now that I talk to OW's H, I realize that's only b/c she's back with her H. WS also said about two weeks ago that OW is backing off. Well that doesn't help if she's backing off but he still pursuing (although I don't know what's going on in his head).

In recent weeks he's made comments about wanting to be single and never get married again (just to date). He's also made lots of comments about how he was perfect before A and that I made him like this.

I was originally planning on going to Plan B soon so he could figure out what he wants and not hurt me anymore.

Was Sad Tiger:

'zactly! I have a dirty mouth and make a constant effort to clean it up. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />