Hi. It is me, carnation my H is the truck driver who will just not come clean. Cell phone records indicate he receives many calls that he can not account for. My guess is she is using *67. Not traceable. Of course. Some are over 100 minutes !! The last one being last week.
He was just home last week and we are getting along really well. My plan A is working great.
I tried to check his phone call log on his phone - all calls had been deleted - surprise.
Anyway, he wants me (always has) to join him on the truck. I never wanted to before. But now with all this going on, other suspicious things too, I feel that I must to save my marriage
Today I am giving my 2 week notice at work. I have been there for over 6 years. This is a big deal to me. But I feel I must do it. I am freaking out here big time and everyone knows it.
Would you have done anything to avoid all this pain ? Please let me know. I hope I am doing the right thing but feel that I have no choice.
He just will NOT talk about it and denies completely. Help please.

Carnation

Don't worry about the cell phone histroy. Look a the phone bill. Most cariers will show you what the inbound calls are. It may take a request of the phone company. Since you are paying for the calls, you have a right to know what you are paying for.

Don't worry about the cell phone history. Look a the phone bill. Most cariers will show you what the inbound calls are. It may take a request of the phone company. Since you are paying for the calls, you have a right to know what you are paying for.

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I would cut off a finger if I could go back in time and prevent my W from having the A. Preferably a pinky.

Why don't you take a two week vacation -don't quit your job -what if things do not work out. You would need a job then. Think aobut it or a leave of absence ?