My H had an affair with this psycho... we moved changed our cell numbers, our home phone everything... well somehow OW found out our home phone number even though it is supose to be unlisted and she now has found out my H cell phone... Last night she called his cell phone * blocking the number of course) and I answered and of course she wouldn't talk so a friend of mine who happened to be there said into the phone quite calling you B****, and she said out loud she just called me a B****, so I heard her voice ... so know I know for sure... does anyone know of websites ( even if I have to pay for the Info) to put her name in there and get her info... I have no number for her and I think I know her address but not sure I have to have this info to get the restraining order. thanks for your help. this has really been a nightmare just when I can breath she's back....

Whenever anyone calls me with their phone # blocked, I don't pick up. I'm guessing if she leaves a threatening or hostile message you can use that for evidence to get a restraining order or to even have her arrested.

She sounds like the OW I had to deal with. Chicken at heart but with the mouth of a burping vulture. (YIKES). <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

What info do you have on the OW? You can put trace on your phone (check with the police for that option). Otherwise, do a google search. If you still can't find anything, e-mail me at: mborchid2@yahoo.com .

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Whitepages.com That works sometimes. Or go to askjeeve.com and type in how to find someone. Hope it helps.

mermortal... we do that already, when it says private he won't answer... I however grab the phone, because I want her to talk so I can blast her. She has yet to leave a message... she is afraid of me as well she should be. Orchid, I will be e-mailing you shortly... and help would be great... When this 1st happened she left a message on our home phone and said she was going to call me... bring it on.... But every time I answer she hangs up. I have done a google search and nothing.... I did pay 40 for a search, but it gave me all of her old number and old addresses. RHM... I tryed the white pages nothing. Here is a new developement.... Yesterday my husband gets a call from his dispatcher saying he has a call up front... ( I never call his work only his cell) He asked who it is and she saud it is your wife , my husband says no its not.... and his dispatcher says it sounds like her. Well of course the OW hangs up... so he went up to ask what was said... and she said she asked for him by name and then said this is his wife... and my name after that. So now it is really on I am going to find her some how... and smack her with my wedding ring... do you dare try to be me.....