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Ok here is something that has been bothering me a bit now. There were people close to my FWW who knew about the A with her XBF and now I'm starting to get mixed feelings towards them. The first person is my FWW step mom, she is her father's second wife. She lived with her when her parents divorced and they are more like friends than family. She knew that my FWW was having problems with me and that she went to meet with her XBF (she is well aware of the kind of person the XBF is and knows a lot about their relationship). Still she didn't stop them from meeting. She could have talked to my FWW's father and that would have probably stopped the meeting (I was in the US and my FWW was in our home country visiting her parents). My FWW says she doesn't know anything about the A and that she told her that is was wrong meeting with XBF.
The other person is my FWW best friend, she knew the whole story about FWW and XBF. Again she didn't try to stop her from doing what she ended up doing. WTF am I suppoused to do the next time I see this people? Pretend everything is OK? I somehow feel bretayed by them, I know that their loyalty is to my FWW first but if they cared about me then maybe they should have told me.
Also there are a lot of her friends that were with them and saw them leave together, not to mention what XBF may have told them. What can I do if I ever meet with them. I feel that inside them they will be laughing at me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
**** IM MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Maybe I'm just making a big fuzz about nothing and I choose to get angry at them because they are nowhere close to me now.

<small>[ March 03, 2005, 07:37 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

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JOIN the club..

Everyone at my wifes work new who she was talking to when OM's called and they did nothing to deter this little thing, imagine how I must have felt walking into her job on somedays to pick her up and having these people stare at me like I was some kind of loser and they all probably believed I did not know and thought it was funny..

I told Cindy I can't stand to even go in her work anymore. I used to love going in there, I even offered to do some handyman work around the place for the owner to help her out.

Just in case your wondering my wife works for a daycare...LOL


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