Well it has been 11/2 months since I posted....I went to CS hearing and now I am paying $455.00 a month for meagan and I have her every weekend....Fri, Sat, sun till monday morning......3 weeks ago WW calls and asked to take meagan for the weekend of the 17th of Feb. I said yes as long as I can have her Sunday thru wens, morning....well when I went to pick her up on sunday WW calls me and told me I can't have her until next weekend...I was pissed and call PA. state police and they told me that they don't get involded in dometic problems to call my lawyer ....I did on that monday....he called me back on wens, and told me she will never see meagan on a weekend again......this was the second time she did this to me.......WW also lost her job at the YWCA two weeks ago I found out.....Meagan no longer go's to Daycare any more....( and that was the reason my support went up) from $300.00 a month) I called the daycare and they told me that WW has not payed her what she owe's her....I told them if WW does not pay it in two weeks to let me know how much it is and I will pay it.......I will get a receit and take it to CS and I will take her back for a redution.....But I do not know because she is not working....?????


Also the weekend of the 17th the landlord went to OM's house to ask for his riding mower and welder back from OM......( he found out that they are moving......some one seen them taking boxes out a week earlier) well that friday he saw that WW was home so he knocked on the door and no one answered so he went to the garage and opened it up and got his welder.....The lawn mower was missing.......he went upstairs and WW answered this time and he asked were the mower was and she told him she did not know and she would have OM call when he got home......Well when OM got home they called the police on the landlord for treaspassing......Ain't that nice...( OM sold that riding mower) The police told landlord that OM told them that they gave it to him.....what an [censored]......Well OM told landlord in front of police that he hangs with a child molester (ME )....landlord told OM that if I was a CM why did ww stay with me when she turn 18 and why did she marry me at 21 yrs old.....( I was pissed when I heard this........)Landlord told police that OM has been beating on WW since march 2004 and that all the neighbors have seen him do it and WW denided it......OM said that if that is true how come he don't have a record for abuse.....landlord said that it is because you beat down all your women and they are ascared of you...He did not say anything....well police said that they will be investagating it....landlord told police that he is scared that OM is going to kill WW and then it will be to late..... well any way...OM and WW owe him two months rent $1100.00 and $250.00 in late charges......plus the lease is for two more years........( land lord is going to take them to court).......I did my taxes and WW gave me her w'2s....we are still married......I have not had contact with WW since not getting meagan that weekend....I have gotten meagan since then....My brother went down to OM's last week and left a copy of the taxes because WW told him that OM wants to see them before she signs them......well My brother told WW the next day that I want this divorce over with and that I will sign it if she signs her name off of deed...he also told WW that I want nothing more to do with her and that I don't want to know were she live's either.....and that I found a nice friend and I am moving on......he will do all transactions between us.......now WW is asking Meagan all the questions....who ,what, where.....Now ww is wondering whats going on......she is carring a little boy meagan said....due in july I think.....OM has been 2-waying my cell at 4 in the morning for the past week every other day (alerting my cell... very loud) trying to get my goat ) I just note it down on my log book ....He wants me to say something back to start some **** but I will not give him the satisfaction.....it was at 5:00 am this morning.....staying out of picture pisses them off....now they don't have me to fight with.....I love it maybe WW might see that it is not me,the cause of all there problems....but him ....she told me on the phone the day that she would not give me meagan I am the reason they have to move.....no not OM the wife beater......me ...I am the reason the neighbors do not want anything to do with them.......Not OM.......ain't that some ****........I still care for WW but she needs to fall flat on her face...............

As far as My female friend.....We are strickly friends and that is all ...I told her that I still have feeling for my WW......but if she want to take her kids and my dd to movies and stuff like that that would be fine...........I tell you what my WW is starting to think about alot of thing,s

By the way I am doing much better and I am in control of myself.......I am the funny frank again that people like being around......I am strong and feel very positive.......would I take her back.......maybe but it would be on my terms.......she is so pissed because I am not bothering her.....she told my brother that I am text messageing OM to start **** but she showed my brother the message but did not know how to shom him who sent it.........LIES.LIES.LIES....
I love being in control of my self.......If ya want them back just give up the fight and let them fight with themself.......sit back and watch the train wreck..........but get off the track so you don't get hit with there madness.........

If ya want them back just give up the fight and let them fight with themself.......sit back and watch the train wreck..........but get off the track so you don't get hit with there madness.........

LOL!!! Plan B for Dummies.

"I love being in control of my self.......If ya want them back just give up the fight and let them fight with themself.......sit back and watch the train wreck..........but get off the track so you don't get hit with there madness......... "

Oh yes, it's soooo nice to get off that roller coaster, isn't it?
Knowing you don't have to worry about it anymore, it's their problem, and whether or not they get help and fix it, you can have a happy future.

Frank,

Nice to get an update. Glad you are doing ok. Sorry about all that OP/WS drama. Seems like you are not the only one to notice the OM is wacko. WS must be on some serious brain fade medication to keep lying about OM so much. If she is dumb enough to belief the OM is better than you are, she deserves him. Make sure she is off your insurance policy.

take care,
L.

Really .......WW saw us yesterday and was pissed.....my friend.......

WW told meagan if she does not call her while she is with me she is not going to let her call me....is that childish or what........so now i make sure meagan calls her....