Am I simply expecting too much? Please, anyone, tell me?!
Here is the original thread for some background:
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=31;t=017152I am sleepy 2-4 hrs avg a night, miserable, bleary eyed... getting sick again. Gotta go to work tomorrow, doing the housework, the kids stuff, etc... he is still living elsewhere.
WH leaves DD4 home from preschool today just becasue...he just didn't feel like getting her ready (IMNSHO)! He comes over to get them off to school cause on the days I work I am already out the door by then, he was the one who volunteered to continue this routine... DD13 is home sick but she is sleeping and also much more self-sufficient!
He says he is trying to stop being selfish and yet everything I see from him is "me, me, me"! I guess this is what has to happen to build him into the man I deserve but I hate being patient... it is hard when you are wronged!
Could use some male input here, too, guys! When he says he is improving himself, his finances and his business... is this really being done for us? For me? Right now I feel like it is all at my expense, emotionally, but would be willing to stick it out if it is really for the greater good!
As a Christian W, is it my job to stand back and not interfere? Shouldn't I expect him to at least stoke an ember here? He is working late every night (but then comes by for a little while), he is worrying about
his bills and he is concentrating on
his changes... and I am feeling left out in the cold... still!
Help!!