Hello everyone..I need advice. I have decided to go to plan B wih my H. Him being so far away (2 hours) makes plan A almost impossible. I have also decided that because he is not giving me child support on his own like he said he would so many times or any money for bills he created before he abandoned us, I am filing for legal separation (Not divorce) This way he will be ordered by the court to give me CS. I am also haoping this sudden change of events (me taking the initiative of filing first and taking away his fire of dangling D in front of me when he wants to control me) that it will give him a reality check that he is responsible for his 2 children and he will not have the fantasy life full of money and no obligations.

My question is this: How can I plan B and still exchange the kids with him on visitation days? I have no family here and no close friends (I have got rid of "toxic" friends) I want to stick with my decision of no contact what so ever until he has stopped all contact with OW or any other thats comes along once and for all and truly wants to commit to rebuilding our marriage. I can't see him right now anyway because I need to concentrate on ME right now and not HIM.

Also I would like to write a plan B letter, but I am not sure where to start. I am not very good at expressing my emotions on pape and am afraid to say something wrong. Are there any suggestions?