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Today I got a call from my friend in the hotel hospitality business. I had asked him over two months ago to find out information about times and registration from where the affair took place.
I previously asked my wife who paid for the room and her answer was he did.
He could not find anything under the OM's name so I thought he used a fake name but asked him to check under my wife's name or previous married name.
Well guess what it was under my wife's other married name.
I also found out my wife paid cash for the room whenever they were going there, and of course using a fictitious address.
I asked her about this discrepancy and her response was you asked who paid for it not who went there to pay for it.
Now I am questioning how many other questions I have asked were answered using this same tact. How am I suppose to believe her now that she did not pay for it with the family's money.
Gosh this hurts! How should I believe other stuff now.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by SilentMisery:
<strong>How should I believe other stuff now.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You shouldn't. Believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see.

Don't waste time trying to prove her wrong. Just assume she's lying about ANYTHING affair related.

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This is what Spider Slayer has termed the "technical truth."
It ain't honesty, it lying, period.


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