I LOVE this vent. I agree with every word too.

Maybe its FBS bias but I've always disagreed with SAA and TA who say that its in part the FBS fault that the WS has an A.
That just doesn't work logically for me.

I contribute to a dull marriage so its my fault Squid chooses to deal with that by having an affair?

How about "I contribute to a dull marriage and Squid decides to get MC?" Could that not just as easily have been an outcome as an affair?

Good vent ! All blessings.