Good for you, Hopeful. At least you are not starving. I had hoped that you and your wife were doing well, since you haven't been around MB much. So sorry that this is happening to you.

HINC,

Can you say a bit more about how you cracked her password? Did you use a program..or was it trial and error, basically?

AndrewA-be observant and you will find the password if she is using your computer. People tend to use the same password over and over. I noticed her use of this password on another application. Other than that it's trial and error or spyware. i have used both successfully.

Hi hinc,

I hadn't heard from you in a while(since the Christmas dilemma I think?) and thought I would come over and see how you were.

Sorry things have not gone well with your WW still.It seems that there are many of us dealing with endings of one sort or another.Sad to say.

You will be ok without the turmoil,I can vouch for that.I feel so much better not being part of a triangle and being married to a selfish adulterer.Nothing has changed in that department for me either so....WH was shown the door basically.Just tidying up loose ends for my D now.As it gets closer I feel relieved? If that's possible.I might crack a bit when in the courtroom but I know there is no other choice for me given what the alternative is.Perhaps same for you?

Hang in there and best of luck to you and your kids.And by the way,do not let WW back in this time right? Like Miss Mellie says. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Don't mess with her Texas attitude!

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Octobergirl, sorry to hear about your situation. sounds erie similar to mine. I never in a million years thought I would be divorced but you have to play the hand you are dealt. I have a long time before the final proceedings can take place but unless there is a radical change on her part that is the road i'm on. I will not be a part of some weird sicko triangle. I feel calm now not like in the beginning. I now know I can make it without her. There is a woman out there that would treat me the way I deserve. A woman of moral and convictions who does not try to solve her relationship problems outside her marriage. I am still hopeful for the future but the hope that I will spend the rest of my days with my WW are dimming pretty rapidly these days.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by hopefulinnc:
<strong> I now know I can make it without her. There is a woman out there that would treat me the way I deserve. A woman of moral and convictions who does not try to solve her relationship problems outside her marriage.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">ok, JL might gobsmack me for saying this, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> but I am going to say it anyway, HINC. Everytime I read your posts, I just shake my head when I think of all the nice, decent, available 40-somethings out there who would KILL for a man like you! You are attractive, polite, kind, smart, funny, all the good attributes that women appreciate and value. And here you are wasting your time dealing with a hopeless mess!

y'all can throw tomatoes now, but I just had to get that out!

MelodyLane, thank for the compliments. It is a shame that I have to deal with this mess. I know there women out there that would find me an atrractive companion. Too bad my WW doesn't.