Here is a copy of my new Plan B letter....again.
Dear WH,
Please give me the respect of reading this letter carefully.
As I have told you many times, I do love you very much. I think I have proved that to you over and over again.
When you came back home on December 24th, we discussed at length the conditions of your return home, and you agreed with me on all points.
Knowing the points we discussed, I now must ask you respectfully to find another place to live. I cannot live with the way things have been since your return.
If you should decide at some time in the future that you want to stay married to me, you must FIRST do these things……….
* Be on your own with NO CONTACT with OW what so ever – and find some way to prove no contact.
* Quit your job, or be transferred to another office far away from "town name"(as long as OW is not also employed at that office)
* A NO CONTACT letter written by you, approved and mailed by me, sent to OW.
I feel that there IS hope for us and our marriage – a new marriage, where we both can be happy together. Until that day comes, I ask that you not contact me. Our financial arrangements can remain the way they are now.
I will send your mail to whatever address you wish.
I do not ask these things lightly. But, I feel I must move forward with my life. If you do decide that you want to be with me – and ONLY me – you will gladly do anything to win me back.
I hope for a wonderful life with my husband, who is beautiful both on the inside and the outside.
All my love,
K
<small>[ March 07, 2005, 06:39 PM: Message edited by: k72172 ]</small>
