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Hi Binder, I saw your post to speratedhubby and I wondered how things were going with the WW.I don't know if you saw my reply to you on my other thread but I had asked how things were.Maybe you missed it. Any news? Enquiring minds want to know. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> O <small>[ March 08, 2005, 11:45 AM: Message edited by: Octobergirl ]</small>
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Howdy O, thanks for the inquiry.
Nothing really happening here, WW tried contacting me last week regarding a recent tragedy that touched both of our respective agencies. It was simply to "share" her thoughts and feelings I assume. I ignored all attempts which really frustrates her as she is very expressive and KNOWS I am the only one that can truly relate to the situation.
I did have to speak with her briefly regarding an incident involving our son at school. There was no extraneous conversation. My buddy then received an emotion laced email regarding counseling to "better communicate about the children" and that my NC demand was an "ultimatum". She further alluded to contacting her lawyer regarding this issue again. No further suggestion was made that we attend marriage counseling.
My interpretation? Not being able to chat as buddies with her "dreadful" husband makes her nuts. Not so nuts as to end the affair, but it grates on her. She cannot force the issue other than to threaten to call her lawyer. Whoopdeedoo.
I feel more confident this A will end, probably badly. I feel more certain that I will be single and have no problem pulling the "plug". As all property/child rearing arrangements have been made that step would only take 3 – 4 mos. And be essentially a paper shuffle. She doesn't realize that besides the children, I am holding on now more for her sake than mine. I will be fine on my own.
Thanks for asking, I hope all is well with you.
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Well,it doesn't sound as though your WW is quite ready to really end it afterall.At least not do what is needed.What a drag. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
I'll keep hoping for you and those cute kids though.
I am doing alright.A bit "anxious" maybe to get this over with for good.Like packing that one last box before moving......
cya around~
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