Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Call Relate tomorrow and book a session for yourself. Find a counsellor you can open up to and OPEN UP. tell them your sitch.

Once you have set the scene, invit eyour WW to attend relate also. Explain that its not to fight , just to discuss in a controlled environment the issues you both have.

You need to open a dialog with your WW that isn't polluted by OM's influence.

And when you DO go to relate with her, be prepared to choke down all LBs.

Thats what I'd do.

Relates' free BTW , you just need a 'contribution' according to your financial sitch.

How do you eat an elephant ?

One bite at a time.

{{{{mig}}}}

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside

Mig...

You're misssing the point here...

Lemme show you what you are not getting ok?

Judge (Mig's new good lawyer), today I am presenting to you my client. Before you today, I am going to show testimony from his PSYCHOLOGIST and the progress notes showing how my client is and wishes to be a good responsible father and is deserving of more visitation time and custody.

That's what you're missing bud.

All the yoga in the world...all the "naturalceuticals" will not convince the legal world you're fine...and that your bouts with rage and anger are through. That can only be documented thru a psychologist working with you and one with court privileges...

and also you said YOU took yourself off of the AD's. I suggested to you one, lexapro...and the efficacy is not for YOU to decide, but for a medical doctor and the psychologist to decide. If it's not working, they will work with you to find something appropriate for your body chemistry.

You gotta let go of this "Miguel knows best" thing.

You gotta do the appropriate things. Sure, keep doing the yoga, doing the eating right, sleeping, and working stuff...that's important. But it will not get your kids back at all.

I am asking you to think without feeling right now. To do the obvious is hard when you're entrenched in emotional warfare.

And your words are also still fueled with anger. I can feel it...you're calling it a "mexican standoff". That refers to a gunfight. And yes, while it is going to be an uphill road, it is not something you can lose if you approach it calmly and with a clearer mind.

I am trying to get you to a place where you will be able to negotiate for the visitation. Right now, you have no power at all for that. If you take APPROPRIATE AND LEGALLY CORRECT measures, your chances will vastly improve. But that will mean that you'll have to say that MIGUEL DOES NOT know best...professionals do.

If I truly thought as your xw does that you were not of a clear mind and were possibly dangerous with the rages, etc...I would move heaven and earth to keep my children away. And only way I would consider letting the father back in to have visitation with them would be if he were certified by a professional psychiatrist and pbysician that he was sane. And getting help. And it would have to be proven to the court.

That's what your W is thinking now.

You can't apply even one MB principle right now except plan B. Not until you get MIGUEL under control...and moving in a positive direction that can actually bring some help to your situation. All the brooding, the yoga, the herbal remedies will NOT take the place of a psychologist, sessions, appropriate and monitored AD's, a psychologist who also has court privileges. Those are the things that are missing that can make your life easier.

If somebody handed you a set of keys and said that one of them could start a porsche, you'd fumble through each key to find the one that works. You got some good keys before you now. And you're still trying to open the porsche using some key you found somewhere else.

That's like you now. We're giving you good advice, and you're still doing it your way...and wondering why nothing changes. You gotta change the dynamics positively before you can experience the changes you desire.

And know that you may very well regain partial custory or visitation with the kids...but don't think or focus on your xw now.

Now is plan B. And plan C. C means children. That means doing the psych/court privileged sessions...and having the psych work in conjunction with a physician...and getting you on right meds for clear thinking...and sessions to work on these issues...and moving towards the day when the psych can say soon to any court anywhere that "My patient is stable and of sound mind. I have no doubt he'll be a great father if allowed to be your honor."

That should be your goal as of today..and nothing should move you from that attainable goal. You just gotta move the ego aside