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I have read with much interest your post to former Georgia Guy. The thing that struck a huge chord with me is not financially supporting my WW. I have for the past 3 months paid my WW rent in another town. She is not living in the same town as other man but 300 miles away from me. She came home for T'giving and Christmas and spent the better part of January and Feruary with me as she was hunting a job using my computer. I discovered an email from her to OM just last week where she stated "I love you so much!". So I done.
No more financial support. The separation agreement has been signed so I cool there.
My question is this...what do I do when she comes back and asks for money. It is oblvious she doesn't love me for the right reasons. How far should I let her fall?
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Do you think shw will come and ask for more money ? I think I would tell her she has not business asking you for anything anymore. She needs to ask the OM for money. Don't you think as all the has transpired that OM needs to stand up to the plate and take care of her. After all she is his responsiblity and she is now responsible for herself.
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i am sure she will ask OM for money but I don't know if he will step up to the plate. This thing was all fun and games for him I think. He wanted to marry her, at least that is what he said in his emails to her. She needs to find a job and support herself.
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