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EA in danger of turning into PA - HELP please
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I've been in Plan A for about 10 days now but dday was 1/10. In many ways, I beleive it is working the way it is supposed to - he is talking, feels safe, and has taken notice of the positive changes, BUT NC was broken AGAIN.

Now I feel like I am running out of time as OW will be back in area soon making it possible for the two of them to meet. So far, it is only internet and phone EA. If it turns into a PA, I don't think I would want to try to make it work anymore. WH has been very honest and open about everything in last 4 days and we have been talking a A LOT, which is why I know he has thought about meeting her. I warned him in a non LB way how I felt about this and what the consequences would be - is that all I can do?
Re: EA in danger of turning into PA - HELP please
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Stay straight on plan A for as long as you can, but set a specific time frame, and then...Get ready for plan b.....

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Re: EA in danger of turning into PA - HELP please
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If he has been honest and open you should see that as a positive sign (but don't trust him - make him accountable where he is at all times).

Count your blessings for his honesty. All I have heard for the last 9 months are lies.

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