Sometimes I do things that I know will lead no where but I just can't help myself...
Today, on the day that my H decided to tell the kids he is leaving - I start at him with what I know to be the truth but not the way he sees things. I told him that there is no point to find happiness elsewhere. That he should put his energies to repair our R and that would be the most satisfying for all of us.
His answer was that since having his A he has realized what our R lacked and that he want to open himself to a R greater than what ours was and can be. He said we are good people whose R is too broken to fix. Apparently OW has moved on and has a serious R with someone else. (true? who knows)
Do I except all this and move on? Maybe he is right. He certainly hasn't made me happy for the past year and a half. Do you think it is all still fog talk and I should not give up on us or do you think that at this stage he may be right?

S

I say it's time for Plan B. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I think your right, plan B it is.
It will help my sanity I don't think it will save my M.
I will write a letter and give it to him on Saturday when he leaves.

Any advice on wording?
S