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#1321405 03/11/05 05:03 PM
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I was thinking about this today.
Would you consider Empty being a WW, I don't really but he sure is behaving the way I used to .
It's as if I get to see my own behavior thru him now.
What do you think about this.

#1321406 03/11/05 05:29 PM
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Yes. Anyone who has an affair while married is a WS(Wayward Spouse).

WW (Wayward Wife) or WH (Wayward Husband)

Interesting that you see some of the same behavior in him... that you saw in yourself. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

We often joke around here that there is a book that WS's read so they all know how to behave and what to say.

I also think it's good that you recognize his behavior as being caused by his affair, and not necesarily hatred or spite for YOU.

<small>[ March 11, 2005, 04:30 PM: Message edited by: Faith1 ]</small>

#1321407 03/11/05 05:58 PM
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Lucidity:

I believe you are an intelligent, capable human being.

Please stop dwelling on the past.

Please stop trying 2 fathom the unfathomable.

Figure out what you want your fu2re, and your sons' fu2res, 2 be like.

Make that happen.

-ol' 2long


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