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I am still in Plan A and my WH still lives at the house, however, every time I leave the house either on the weekends or after work he will take the opportunity to call the OW he is having an EA with. Every time I leave the house I assume he calls her but I try not to think about it. He leaves his cell phone out and I get the urge to check... I did yesterday since I was out of the house most of the day Sat. When I look and confirm my assumption I get upset and want him to move out.
I guess my question is... do I allow this to continue (I've already spoke to him about it several times) and be hurt knowing he does this? Or do I tell him to move out?
<small>[ March 14, 2005, 07:46 AM: Message edited by: much mahal ]</small>
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you are in plan A...
in plan A is all about expecting contact..while speaking the pain and hurt it causes without overwhelming the WS with the pain...
how is your plan A going
any changes
what does he say about the contact..
what does he say the contact is.
what is your goal date for plan B..
have you written your plan b letter
how long have been in plan a
where are you with exposure
ark
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