Hi all,
well an update. I thought my WH and i were in recovery, but its all been a lie. The physical A turned into an emotional affair. I found out the hard way. He has been home since December. He left me for OW in August. We were married for 13 years, with 3 children.anyways, i thought he had ended things with her after he moved home, but i found out from his cell-phone which he gaurded with his life except the one time when i found it, I found very sickening, syrupy love notes texted back and forth between the 2 of them, It was enough to make me want to gag. There was no reality to any of the messages, I was starting to trust him again. Boy am i stupid, I feel like filing for a divorce and getting it over with, but i still love him, i know, im stupid. Can anyone help me with plan B letter, plan a is no longer a choice, Its either me or OW. I can't take no more. He has been drunk since i found and exposed his little love secret. I just wish he would leave for awhile. , he has driven all his family and anyone who cared about him away, of course blaming me and them for everything. Will he ever admit that this was his fault, Will he ever feel guilty? Does the WH usually really love the OW or is it all some kind of fantasy thing? also, when the OW finds out the WH is divorced with all the childsupport and alimony, how long does the relationship usually last between the OW and WH.? I don't know if i will ever love again, or be loved, i feel like sh** right now. LIke i was never good enough.. any help would be appreciated..thanks
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