Well 2 days ago found out my husband of 5 years had been having an affair with another man for the last 3 weeks we cried together for the past 2 days and have talk alot and we have decided to work on our marriage but i can not seem to get the picture's of them together out of my head I don't know anything anymore when i touch him or hug him i find myself wondering if he is thinking about him all i do is cry anymore will the pain ever go away is there anyone out there who is going through or has gone through the same thing i have no one to talk to my family just wouldn't understand they would wnat me to end it know but I love him and i stand by my vows this is as worst as it could get and we have 3 year old son i have to think about please need someone to talk to:) aew77@msn.com <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />