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#1344118 03/30/05 01:01 AM
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I would have edited that firts post, but "the maximum edit time has expired". That must be about 1 minute. Hmmm. I don't like that feature at all. I need to be able to edit all my old posts to remove information that is not longer vital to the discussion but which is generally private and should not be left lying around on the WORLD WIDE WEB.

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And I'm second.

This is weird. I had to re-register. And now I've got a funny name. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

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I keep getting logged out - after about half a minute. It's amazing that the new program still has that problem. I can stay logged in on a couple of other sights for months!

BUT It's great to have the site back up!!!
Congratulations and thanks to the troups who did the work!

(sorry to have started with a gripe, but I can't go back and edit it now, so I guess I'm stuck with it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> )

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It is great to have the site back up.

If you look at "who's online" you can practically see what people had for breakfast.

I don't like being a junior member. I had billions of posts under my belt.

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Hi KiwiJ,

(I logged back in just to say hi)

Are you sure you had to re-regisiter? Maybe they're not really done yet - and you're old login will appear soon.

Enough of my grumbling! MB is up!

I meet with the lawyer to draw up the papers tomorrow.

Oh well, I guess I don't need MB anymore. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Going to bed now...

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Hey hey!

FYI - to log in, I had to open the security settings for my browser and delete all the cookies having anything to do with MB.

After that I was able to log in and stay logged in.

Now if I could only read the threads! Heh, heh.

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Finally! YAY! Hi everyone! It's good to be back!!!!!!! Happy Easter (belated) and wishing well for everyone...

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sorry to hear that you had to file. remember you can always come here to talk, have a cry or two, yell scream whatever YOU need and we will try to be there for you.

ALL THE BEST AT THIS HORRIBLE TIME [[[[AD]]]]


Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.

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well I deleted all the cookies, so let's see if I stay on now! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Hi ya'll! Having MB withdrawls too?!


BW, 33 WH 36 Md 14.5 yrs DD13, DS11, DD4 Tired of counting d-days, D proceeding 7/05 "Pride can break a man right down from iron. Twist him 'round 'round and tatter up a soul Handprint of God on the small of my back my second chance, my second chance. I'll bend a knee my friend, I'll bend a knee... Lay It Down say it's all my fault, all my fault. Say I believe, I believe lay it down. This the hour of my healing, of my healing, yeah my heart, my heart redeemed."
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Good Gawd!

So far, I HATE it!

But it IS like some other forums I participate in. I liked the old one better, where I could see more active topics than a few measly ones surrounded by STUFF. ...reminds me of a Microsoft Word toolbar!

Now, let's see if my old sigline survived (can't change it because it's over the new limit of a measly 100 characters.

I HATE it... ...but I'll use it 2wice a day!

-ol' 2long

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In a month nobody will notice the new format <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Andits going to be a whole lot better to direct newbies to the supporting areas of the site.

ps. not enjoying it so far - we're a new breed- conservative web users ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


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I HATE the thingy down the side. I don't like the reply thingy at the bottom.

But I LIKE that we're back up again.

My e-mail inbox thanks you MB. LOL

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Ok, I just off of a 17 hour shift at work. Funny how one can do the work of 3 in less than 24 hours. LOL!!! ..... and NOT be crazy.

Ok, so now I get here and find that not only do I have to go to a new site but my password was too old ..... or was that me who was too old? YIKES!!! It's late and I am too tired to even try to figure out how to navigate through this place. Ok, so maybe I am just too old and grouchy for this change. Maybe I should just be shot. LOL!!! But those bars on the side of this screen makes me feel like I am in some sort of prison. Where's Martha?

Am I griping? Can't tell.... I am too pooped to even grrrrr.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Ok, I made my debut, so now I'll get my butt off to bed. See ya all tomorrow.... maybe. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

BTW and for what it's worth, these old eyes, need a full screen to read and the lighter link codes are harder to see. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> Ok, I know a lot of hard work went into these changes so I hope MB doesn't get too offended. The little graemlins are cuter. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Ok now it's getting loopy. I tried to edit but the update button is gone. The continue button takes me in a circle and now I am getting dizzy. :eek:

Aloha,
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This is Awesome! GOnna take a while to get used to though! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> [color:"red"] [/color]



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Hi. Welcome back y'all!

Clearly I'm not the only who has problems with the new forum. Lets hope that they can solve them soon. Cya!


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Kiwi, why'd you ahve to re register??? I didn't know my password so from the OLD boards I requested it be sent and they sent it to me!

Ok, I haven't read any of the replies yet, so excsue me if someone has mentioned this already! I am just so gald the boards are up!

I know what EVERYONE is going to be doieng today! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />



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Did you know that in your Personal info you can put your BIO, so people can go look at your "story" I dont like calling it a story cuz it sounds too fairytalish and we all know that is not the case! But you can do that!

I'm getting used to it now! oh man, I gotta get the kilets up!



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Again, I want to thank the invisible gnomes who make this MB site work. Without you, we would all be alone with our struggles.

I'm sure it will take a few days or weeks to work out the kinks in the new system. In that light, I'll note a few problems that I'm having.

1) Auto-logout. I seem to stay logged in only a minute or so. I deleted all my cookies and cached files.

2) Missing threads. I had two recent threads on GQII which I do not find on the new forum.

That's about it. I can see some cool new features which I hope to explore in the weeks ahead.

It should take about 8 weeks for us to get our D - and until the end, I will hold onto some hope that we can miraculously save the marriage. I'll be looking for help on the MB forum. At this point I figure the odds of D are about 95%.

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OK, now I'm trying new "privacy" settings re cookies - to see if I can stay logged in.

I'm still missing a couple of my threads from the old system.

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