This is going to be short since the site is not accepting much of anything I do.

I convinced my wife to call Steve Harley. They talked for almost 2 hours. Marriage isn't dead yet, but it's on life support. She is filing paperwork no matter what. Our married relationship is over in her mind. If I can convince her to fall in love with me in the 90 day waiting period after filing the divorce.... fine. She doesn't want the commitment and be able to be with other men if she gets that feeling again. Not convinced she can get it with me. She has to get the divorce because she feels like a caged bird. I told her I understand what she feels.

Walls are up. I'm not sure if she's still not contacting the OM. But I was sure she was not last week.

Friday is our 10 year wedding anniversary, and I wanted to get her a small gift, like a promise ring since the wedding and engagement rings are gone.

Any suggestions on anniversary gift. How do I reconcile assisting with divorce paperwork while trying to reconcile? She called today asking "do we need to spend the whole weekend together?" I said no. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />