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Co-Dependent? Or Just Another Plain Ole BS??? #1347709 03/30/05 11:38 PM
Joined: Jun 2003 Posts: 1,514 T TNT_RN OP Member
OP TNT_RN Member T Joined: Jun 2003 Posts: 1,514	I am posting here simply cause there is more traffic... We are in a tenuous recovery... actually going pretty good lately. I also have been reading more about co-dependency since the MC/IC has given FWH "homework" about co-dependence to work on (still don't think he has!!) I realize that I fit the very definition of "co-dependent"... I am an adult child of an alcoholic/drug addict, a survivor of CSA and have various other demons... I am a co-dependent born & bred!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> How much does this play into being M'ed to someone who will have As on me? Am I staying to work on this cause I am "co-dependent" or cause I truly love my H and want this M to work??? (for the good and healthy reasons!) This really bugs me! How many other BS and/or WS consider themselves "co-dependent" and what can we do about it?! Is a certain degree of "co-dependence" healthy? BW, 33 WH 36 Md 14.5 yrs DD13, DS11, DD4 Tired of counting d-days, D proceeding 7/05 "Pride can break a man right down from iron. Twist him 'round 'round and tatter up a soul Handprint of God on the small of my back my second chance, my second chance. I'll bend a knee my friend, I'll bend a knee... Lay It Down say it's all my fault, all my fault. Say I believe, I believe lay it down. This the hour of my healing, of my healing, yeah my heart, my heart redeemed."

Re: Co-Dependent? Or Just Another Plain Ole BS??? TNT_RN #1347710 03/31/05 10:12 AM
Joined: Dec 2001 Posts: 2,262 L LowOrbit Member
LowOrbit Member L Joined: Dec 2001 Posts: 2,262	You might want to review what Dr. Harley has to say about co-dependency... How the Co-Dependency Movement is Ruining Marriages

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