Sorry, I must be in the slow group! I can't figure out how to reply <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> & I don't have much time --
I just spent about 30 minutes on this post, editing & then all of a sudden fond myself booted off? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

Just so you know - There are pleanty here that know it is absolutely terrible what you are going through! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />
If you want to call it quites, I would understand. But He may come back - the dynamics of the "A" change when the flair of fantasy land fades & reality creeps in.
I would recommend the "Love must be Tough" book by James Dobson, that if he wants to come back & you have a change of heart, you may be more prepared to take him back under conditions that are more conducive to a real recovery!
Peace be with you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
HH

Hello HH!!

"I just spent about 30 minutes on this post, editing & then all of a sudden fond myself booted off?"

I'm so sorry!! Thank you for taking the time to respond. I like the way you did it. You made this board work when it won't work the right way!


I tried to put links on my thread and they link somewhere else so I deleted them now.
We all have a lot to learn here!



I wrote down the name of the book - thank you!!

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