Well everyone I had been waiting and I picked whaqt I thought was the perfect time to present my Plan B letter to my WH. We had a nice few days, I had been doing a short plan A seeing as I had not done so well before now, too angry! I have been looking absolutely scrumptious, all the finances have been looked after and there are no loose ends to require us meeting. I did it and now I feel so alone! Why is this the time when no MB board is available!! I feel really sad and scared at the same time!

It was Easter weekend and WH was over to my house and had dinner with me and the kids just before he left for his retreat week in California where he will be seeing the OW. He thanked me for allowing him to spend a wonderful time with the family and that I was a wonderful and real woman. Once he got the letter his email response to me was that he will respect my wishes and reminds me that I should consider the well being of the children. It doesn’t sound like he will care at all that I will not be in his life! He has not tried to call me at all since. He called my son on his cell for his birthday call.

How do I get thru the withdrawl? I love him so much and it is killing me knowing he will be with her for over a week everyday! He seems so removed and distant.

I don’t think this plan b will make him re-evaluate, hopefully I will feel better about life after a while?

I don’t expect to hear from him soon! He gets back April 4th and then is on business for a few days out of town again. I leave for Chicago on the 8th and get back the 13th, then he is gone for another night or two. We have prearranged the care of the kids so that should all work as scheduled. Will I ever know if he is thinking of me and our marriage?

I do not feel hopeful anymore! So sad…….

Where is the Plan B letter?
Did you post it here?