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Don't go into hiding. I want to hear from you.
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Mimi,
Not really hiding. Had home computer issues again, and March 31 was end of year at my office, so tons of admin stuff to do.
I haven't been calling/texting/e-mailing WH, I have the boys call him to say goodnight each day.....5yr old can work my cell and daddy is speed dial #1, so I don't even have to talk with him at all.
I started a "journal" of sorts. I have a steno pad and I write down thoughts and lines that would work in poetry. One page I even marked "Why am I so sad?" and I have it listed with Pro's and Con's regarding our R and personality traits of WH. It seems to help. Still a rollercoaster, some days I am ok, others I cry at the drop of a hat.
Besides all that, I keep getting logged out of this site for no apparent reason.
I'll try to be better about posting so you know that I am still alive, I won't say "alright", because I am not alright. I hate this. I hate what he's done. I hate that I have to fight for something he seems content to walk away from. I hate that my kids ask why daddy doesn't love us anymore. I hate that he's got another woman to keep him happy and feel affection and I have nothing. I hate sleeping alone. I hate being alone all the time.
Wow!! Didn't know that just "saying" all that would feel good, but it does. Maybe I'll go into our warehouse and destroy a few boxes by kicking them with my big boots.
-Christine
A man travels the world over in search of what he needs, and returns home to find it.
FWH (him) 40
FBS (me) 38
together 12 years, married 8
5 kids (his, mine & ours) oldest 16, youngest 6
EA/PA/EA 11/2004-12/2005(all with same OW {19 & our nanny for 1 year prior}yuk)
DDay 11/2004
False Recovery 08/2005 - 09/2005
RECOVERY '06
NC not very firm at first, but now securely in place!
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CHRISTINE: What a perfect end to my day to hear from you! I've been silly all day today so please forgive my next comment because I know you are feeling sad. BUT, BOOTS! YOU HAVE BOOTS ON? Join the GODDESS CLUB. Check out STILLHERE's BOOTS! Yours wouldn't happen to be able to outdo those would they? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> HAVE FUN, NO MATTER WHAT, THIS WEEKEND, CHRISTINE!!!!
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