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Holy Cow, I think Sally gets the underwear prize! But wait--she doesn't need anymore! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> And I agree with [color:"purple"]grapegirl[/color] - we Goddesses should have "attendants" to do those things we find objectionable. Oh well, guess I'll have to have a pretend maid-one that works for free! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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Ok, I want in!!! With all this plan Aing, I have allowed my Goddessness to come out. I've lost 50+ pounds,(OW has gained 25), my nails are long and groomed (OW bites them to nubs), my roots are covered, my earrings are in and my eye brows plucked, (OW would need weed wacker for this). I splurged on a new pair of sunglasses. I have not conquered the cotton underwear thing yet but....Victoria's Secret is on my mother's day wish list. BTW all OW comments pertain only to the sneaky wench in this unfortunate chapter in my life, and NOT the wonderful/wise reformed OW who have given me wonderful support in this form. These FWS have earned their Goddess status. Some OW (such as the sneaky wench)will never see their own Goddess potential and are destine to live a life so unworthy that they may not even be fit to pick up the dog poopith in my yard! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> Guess I got a little carried away. Ooops!
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together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
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CONFUSED: You have definitely met criteria except we have got to work on the underwear before MOTHER'S DAY. GODDESSES have to always be ready for unforeseen situations in which underwear come into view. We don't want you to lose your status. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> SNEAKY WENCH!! I'm loving that description. You did not get carried away. You were extremely nice as far as I am concerned.
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Goodness!!! I'm so impressed with the amazing displays of Goddessnesss!! Very proud of all of you! In the next few days my H and I are leaving for Russia! I can't wait to see what Russian Goddesses look like!!! I'll bet they wear pink too!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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RUSSIA! That's wonderful! Make sure to come back and tell us all about your trip! Maintain your GODDESS GLORY over there! Wear your sunglasses, flit around in your toga! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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Really?! I'm a goddess! Yay!!! I'm so excited! I've never been a goddess before. :-)
Oh wow! confused42 you lost 50+ lbs.!!!! You are amazing!!! Where can I send you sexy (not skanky) panties in tribute?
ooooh! We could all have a goddess panty swap (new ones)!
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How about NO panties!!??? Oh, wait a minute that might be like the skanky, sneaky wench. I will not endanger my Goddess status, I'm going shopping this weekend for new panties and maybe matching bra!!! Maybe with a few discrete rhinestones! And I'm going to paint my toenails! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
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NO PANTIES won't do unless wearing pantyhose with the panty design. Those work well under tight stretch pants. I have a pair of panties with sequins! How about pink with sequins? Be on the lookout for different PRETTY COLORS , CONFUSED!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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Hey hey, I've never been OW and I like to go bare when the air is warm <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> No going bare during worktime though! A goddess has standards after all.
Pink with sequins - yum! Where does one find those?
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Sally, you are a brave one! I found the pink ones in a major department store just browsing. You don't even have to spend the Victoria Secret money... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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[color:"#ff3399"]Well this Diva had such a glam couple of days!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Wednesday BF and I had margaritas and then hit Wal Mart at night cause there were no kids!! OK, not very glamorous but I did find some cool earrings and a new navel ring that dangles!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Thursday, I spent the day running errands and got a major checking out by a teen stockboy at the grocers!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> DD13 was slightly horrified that the kid was looking at my butt!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Then I went out to dinner w/ FWH and had on my new floral mini, a cute green top and my hot white mesh shoes that tie up around the ankles!! I have never owned such shoes and they were way too cute! Even had a lady look and ask where they came from!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Of course, in true Diva fashion I had purchased coordinating green dangling earrings and a drop necklace... Unfortunatley I lost one of those earrings down a dark, deserted road doing..... hmmmmmmmmmmm, well I will let your imagination run wild with that! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> FWH even said, "you are awful full of yourself lately", I responded "of course I am, #1 I look darned good and #2, no one else is gonna fluff my feathers!" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> I am losing weight also, had lost 75 lbs and regained a few (but NOT all!!!) and am now getting back on track! Guess what?! This Diva will be working out tomorrow w/ my H & I am certain blubber dog aka OW will be working in the gym tomorrow! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> Oh well, sucks to be her!! :} [/color]
BW, 33 WH 36
Md 14.5 yrs
DD13, DS11, DD4
Tired of counting d-days, D proceeding 7/05
"Pride can break a man right down from iron.
Twist him 'round 'round and tatter up a soul
Handprint of God on the small of my back
my second chance, my second chance.
I'll bend a knee my friend, I'll bend a knee...
Lay It Down say it's all my fault, all my fault.
Say I believe, I believe lay it down.
This the hour of my healing, of my healing,
yeah my heart, my heart redeemed."
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My haircut is at a point where it needs a different kind of mousse to keep it's volumn. So, during DD's softball practice, I cruised into the beauty products place at the mall. The girl recommended a product and I think you'll love it too! It comes in a tall, bright red can with giant black letters that say, "BIG SEXY HAIR". Is this a goddess product or what? In fact, there's a whole line with this name. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> I think it just looks great sitting on the bathroom counter...
Grapes are versatile. Grapes can be sour, sweet, sublime as wine and fabulous even when old and dried out.
Me: BS
XCH: Clueless
2-DS: Bigger than me
1-DD: Now also bigger than me!
5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers
6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved
7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about?
Mediation set for November
Final dissolution in January 2007.
2008 and beyond: Life goes on...
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I am in the need of a GODDESS moment.Its good to remember that I AM sassy, I AM smart, I DO have a sense of humor, I AM more then somebody's wife and mother. WH is not worthy.
I almost went and had a piece of cake, but decided summer is right around the corner, I WILL make him wonder who is that GODDESS and what can I do for her? Peel grapes perhaps, make me a pinacolada, rub my feet? Oh yeah there is a list. What pampering would you other GODDESSES desire?
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DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
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BIG SEXY HAIR is only second to SUPER SKINNY. I figure anything with the name "Super Skinny" is worth smearing all over (lmao!). Since my hair is so thick you can't comb it, the Super Skinny is da bomb! I told M23B about it (she's got uber thick tresses)...I swear by it!
But dear goddesses! Look on E-bay for your haircare. You are not a goddess if you are not practically indulgent! I've cut out $7 including the shipping by getting my products online!
I've missed you all! My move went well, and I've a place that is MINE, and not a crappy little beach house (that had the redeeming quality of an awesome water view porch). Can't wait for plantin season (just missed it)!
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I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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GODDESS CHECKUP:
ESSENTIALS : Sunglasses,lipstick,tweezers,scented body lotion,hairspray(for some),makeup items (including foundation, concealer, eyeliner,mascara,blush),colorful undies-not white cotton,draped and flitting TOGA .
OPTIONAL: Pink sunglasses, pink purse, bikini/thong undies from Victoria Secret, shiny sports car, matching undies, weekly manicure/pedicure.....
BEWARE: OW signtings, workout clothes outside of gym,failing to refresh lipstick, forgetting your workout-at least 30 mins. per day!
Continue to update your wardrobe. Stylish is the key. LUCKY and INSTYLE magazines can be used as references....
HAVE FUN NO MATTER WHAT!
DISCLAIMER : Although this may seem superficial, it is a strategy some of us use for dealing with the pain caused by the trauma of infidelity!
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mimi, No offense, but superficial my [censored]!!! This is essential! Being a new Goddess I'll explain my case because supreme GODDESSES do not have to explain to anyone. With all the stress and negativity a little levity is so important! For the most part this time in our lives is really sad and depressing and it is so easy to have a pity party and wollow in it. WS is not taking care of us and we are taking care of everyone else. We should be pampered, WE are SOOOO worth it! If we don't take the time to take care of yourselves why would anyone else want to? So today, I am wearing my blue cotton french cut panties with satin trim and matching bra, that also match the blue stripe down the side of my gym clothes (not baggy sweatpants), my make up is done, my hair looks good and there is a pep in my step. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> PS....I'm not telling WH about my new matching undies thats just between us GODDESSES...if he wasn't in such a fog he'd take the time to find out!
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together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
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This is essential! Being a new Goddess I'll explain my case because supreme GODDESSES do not have to explain to anyone. CONFUSED: You are so right! I agree with you! I was trying too hard to be accepted by those who may not understand! GODDESSES KNOW WHO WE ARE AND WHAT WE ARE ALL ABOUT!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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I remember times when my kids were small when the thought that I was wearing matching bra and panties were amazingly cheering. It made me feel like a woman instead of a milk bank. I'm working back towards matching undies again.
Do we get to have colorful togas, too? I don't want my colorful knickers showing through...
Grapes are versatile. Grapes can be sour, sweet, sublime as wine and fabulous even when old and dried out.
Me: BS
XCH: Clueless
2-DS: Bigger than me
1-DD: Now also bigger than me!
5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers
6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved
7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about?
Mediation set for November
Final dissolution in January 2007.
2008 and beyond: Life goes on...
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KNICKERS?
Goddess, explain yourself!
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Check these out! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> http://www.eyeglasses.com/product/1091630162-1091630164
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