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Hey all, just wanted to say thanks for the support but I am filing for D. My H has a third OW and is possibly a SA. We mutually agreed upon a D. I won't even have to consider OC anymore in my life, but he will have to decide if he is going to introduce the OC to our DD and DS.
Hugs and blessings to you all. I am still posting on GQ2.
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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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(((((FF)))))~ I'm so sorry. You sure don't have to say goodbye to P/C though. Your input is greatly appreciated. Besides, you're fun to have around! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> If I were you, I wouldn't remove myself from the decision making process of how, when/if, etc. your H introduces the OC to your children. I would try to work with him on this point. Make your thoughts on the issue be very clear to him. Especially if your children are youngsters,(I cannot recall). They need someone who is thinking clearly to speak on their behalf. Hugs, ~ad
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FF, You do not have to say goodbye to PG/OC...I have filed the big D and I still post here...I look at it THIS way...there will be an OC NO MATTER WHAT! and that OC IS your kids' sibling...so why not LEARN what you can from the OW's and BW here so you can better prepare yourself when the time comes
also, filing does not mean the end...My H IS waking up, but it is now ME who is the problem...I just cant get past this anger! **SIGH** stay around!
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I stick around too even though I plan to file for divorce. For one thing we are not divorced yet... And also, it's a great place to get support from people who know what you've been through, and maybe help others along the way.
Married 5 years. Together almost 14 years.
Age 30
DDay March 2004
OC Born June 2004
2nd Dday Feb 2005
My daughter was born 7/22/05.
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Faithful, my H is also an SA - actually a recovering SA. My thoughts are with you because I too, have been through so many affairs, prostitutes, escorts, pornography, etc and it's sooooo difficult. If you are a believer, then I would recommend www.firesofdarkness.com which is a Christian website much like this one for spouses and addicts themselves. My prayers are with you.
Thanking God for His grace every day!
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Angelia, thanks for the link. I will check it out. Yes, we are believers. Thanks everyone maybe I will hang around here from time to time. You are all amazing women. My WH is not sure he will tell DD about the OC. He has not bothered to do DNA yet or set up CS so my filing will be first! I am thankful for that anyway. OW is M'd and the A ended because he H found out. However I know they are still in C so I told WH for the sake of the BS he needs to change his cell number and cut off all C. For me? Well our M is over. He crossed the final boundary I set for him which was another A. He said he thought he wouldn't get caught this time and he almost didn't. Thanks again everyone for your support.
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
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