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Here is a little background:
DDay was 12/10/04, W was having a EA/PA with pastor. From Dday till 2/21/05 in false recovery W was saying that she wanted to try to fix our M but in actaullity was planning future with OM (pastor). The OM could not go through with it realized it was wrong and said that the A was a fantasy this devastated my W. The A has been exposed to the church, OM family and W family. NC since 2/21/05 but wife is still unsure if she wants to stay married. We are both in IC. Is she still in the fog or withdrawl? Would it be a good idea to go to Plan B?
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Joined: Jul 2004
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Yep. Nope.
She is still in the fog and no, you need to be plan A'ing, I think. But others with opinions may come along soon with better opinions than mine.
I eat animals.
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Is she still in the fog or withdrawl?
Yes.
Do you still go to this church?
Does she have ANY contact (even seeing him) at all as far as you can tell?
Would it be a good idea to go to Plan B?
No, it would be a bad idea (at this point).
The purpose of Plan B is to separate until the affair ends.
Generally speaking, no affair, no Plan B.
Last edited by Chris -CA123; 04/06/05 06:31 PM.
Prayers & God Bless!
Chris
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