Those of you that know my story have heard about my WW's 3 EA's. I found out this weekend she is on #4 and it is a PA.
It makes me very sad for her. She is searching for something.
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What I can tell all of you that are the BS is it gets better. I have filed for divorce months ago and I am doing much better.

Hi, BHINWI.

I am sorry to hear that.

How are your kids and what is the plan for them?

God bless,
Gimble

Keith...I was just wondering about you. I am so sorry.
This crap is just so unfair. Please don't forget about the info I sent you. Third session is all about how to move on with your life. I think it would be appropriate for you.
I have established great friendships with this group and we do lots of fun things together.

I know there is nothing I can say in terms of how to get your life back with your WW. She really is lost and is looking for something, bet she doesn't even know what it is.
Hang in there..one day at a time..one tear at a time. It will get better...it has too...for all of us.

Homer,

It is unfair for sure. Some day our WS's will regret all this but we tried. My WS is totally in a fantasy world that includes dating, sleep overs, PA, etc all while we are still married. And she is MAD at me!!!! All of her friends are totally disgusted with her and will have nothing to do with her. By the way, she gets the family farm that I inherited. My grandfather built the farm, she is selling it. (I get the house, did it for the kids).

4 affairs (that I know of) are enough. Don't you think?

Keith

PS. How are you doing?

4 A's? Way too much...I can hardly handle one. I am sorry about you losing the farm, it is bad enough that your heart has been trashed but Divorce pretty much destroys everything else. I have tried to get my WH to see that and to ask himself is leaving the discomfort of his current marriage to me and the thrill of this OW really going to be worth the hell we all (including the DDs) will go thru. I think he believes that.

I am at the lowest point since Dday. I just want the pain to stop but I am having a hard time doing that. I stopped my AD a few weeks ago and will have to get back on something. I don't want to end up in the hospital. You may have read that I discovered that my WH is continuing to see the OW but according to him it is all coincidental meetings. I beleive that is probably true but he still is in a FOG about her and is obviously wanting more to happen.

I admire you being able to file the papers when you did, but then again if I knew there was any PA or multiple EA's going on I hope to God I would too. I really truely want to crawl under a rock and never have to see him again.