yesterday before going to sleep I stumbled across this website and took what seems to be my first step to understanding and figuring out the problems that my marriage is facing.

I am writing this to mainly thank the people who put this site up and Dr. Harley for being one of the few people out there in the world who has been able to work through and figure out so many things and touch so many people's lives for the better. It may have taken years of work to get to this point , but I commend you on your accomplishments and abilitiy to bring back hope to those who have lost it.


I am currently in a situation where my wife has reached her breaking point and has drawn the line for seperation in our relationship. After taking the time to read through the articles, letters and even some of the people's posts on the forums I have a better understanding of what has happened in the past two years of my marriage. I've have been trying to convience her and will continue to try but not force the issue of having her log onto the website and just take a little while to read through some of the documentation here and just see if she can relate to any of it. I have a very strong feeling that if she would open her mind up enough to read some of the things on this site, that we might be able or atleast be wiling to try some of the things suggested for that one "last" shot in our marriage.

Thank you again.