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WH made it clear at a emergency counseling session today that it was over, that he was planning on filling out the necessary paperwork and filing for D. Says he wants to do as much as he can on his own, and then I can have an attorney look it over. There is no turning back now.
Once again his anger came out and it was all about me and what a [censored] I am, nothing about his part.
Counselor basically said...deal with it, this is the way he thinks about the whole thing, and you can't do anything to change it" I wish I could hate him...it would make things so much easier.
"LET GO.....OR GET DRAGGED"
me 42
WH 42
DD 12, 11
Married 15 years, known 17
EA 7/04- continued "coincidental" contact
DD 9/24/04
He moved out 10/04
Plan A since 9/04
Wh moved home 5/05 "didn't want to be there"
OW told him to "leave me alone" 7/05
I moved out 8/05
10/05 WH hasn't filed the divorce papers YET!!
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Joined: Jan 2002
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i dont see a plan b in your sig line and i definately DON'T hear a fat lady singing yet!!
what we do in life......echoes in eternity!
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Joined: Jul 2001
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"he's planning..."
"he says..."
Words.
I see no action.
What is the deadline for the end of your Plan A? Plan A is not indefinite. You make a plan and stick to it. Plan B is way more powerful -- when are you going to use it?
Look at the quote in your very own signature line.
Why are you waiting for him to take action? Why can't you be the one to decide how this is going to turn out? Finish up your plan A. Make arrangements for Plan B. Is everything exposed? Empower yourself.
You're here on this board because you believe in MB'ers, right? Then maybe you should use the plan.
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