OK.....here is something interesting...the other night I was driving down a street to go home and I saw mine and STBXH car parked in a lot to an apartment complex...now a few months back i had seen him in his car by this complex...he said he pulled onver to wipe his windshield... -_-...sure because windowshield stay fogged up when your driving on a cold moring in a perfectly working car *what am I stupid?*...anyways But since he is with OW 95% of the time..I knew it was her place....now here is the uneasy part...it's right down the street from my apartment...yup....soooo when i called him begging him to take me to the hospital because I couldn't drive and he was...too busy...guess where he was DOWN THE STREET...oh and when his son had to go to the hospital not once but twice...and he was too busy or too far away...guess where he was...RIGHT DOWN THE STREET.....so yeah i will admit that pissed me off the lazy dork was right down the street and couldn't help his family then....But it does make me feel very uncomfortable that OW lives right down the street from me....it's too close for comfort....I know he told her where I live and where I work wich is also right down the street....someone make me feel better...I think I have always been right...I think he did have her in this house...touching my things...sitting on my furniture...*shudders* it feels very violating...like when you get mugged....someone please say something to make me feel better....and give me some Ideas what to do about the situation to be able to handle it.

SIHW, I hate to see your post go unanswered. I don't really know what to say except your WH is so fogged up! Too far away? Please! Anyway just sending hugs your way (SIHW)

SIHW, affairs are horrible. They turn previously decent people into selfish, uncaring monsters.

If your WH is like most WH and ALL FWH , one day they will wake up and realise what they did and what they became. And then he's have to live with it.

All blessings.