You know what one of the most reassuring things that I've seen to this point about my situation is....

Our MC has repeatedly told us both how impressed he is with how we've handled ourselves through all of this. He's seen both of us at our worst possible moments...my wife, right after the withdrawl ended, right when she JUST started to want to work on 'us'...me, even before the withdrawl ended (he was my IC before we decided to replace our MC with him), when I REALLY was messed up with things.

And when it's all said and done, he's used our story as a positive example for a number of other couples...kept our anonymity, but used us to give them hope and an example of what to do. Kind of scary when you think about it...LOL.

And on top of everything else...I've got a wife who 'gets it'. She learned from what happened, doesn't deny her role in it or try to make excuses, and has worked with me to make changes in our marriage to make us better than we were before.

Sorry...but we had a rough weekend, and last nite's blowout...but then we had a pretty good day today talking and IM'ing while I've been at work...and it just shows me how much better we are than we were this time last year.

And as far as our continued online gaming goes...she made a new character, and got her surname this morning for that char. Her new char's name??

Wuvenya Wifallmyheart

I love that woman!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />