[color:"blue"] Your attorney will only do what you tell him or her to do. That is why you should research this. In fact to avoid sensationalistic custody cases, I think most attorneys are now instructed [i ]NOT[/i] to give their client ideas.

I have seen a lot of cases where the interrogatories are never answered - don't lose sleep over it or take it personally. No one likes to fill out those things and unless she does it voluntarily because she's compulsive or her lawyer tells her it is important and she believes her lawyer, it may just sit around collecting dust.

Good! Let it! The longer you keep the status quo the better off you will be when this goes to court. So if she drags her feet and refuses to cooperate - good - you win!

Don't feel sorry for her and let her see the kids in circumstances that make you uneasy. Later you may be asked why you let it happen before if you now want to say "no". Everything that you say to her or anything that you write to her should be carefully considered - she may videotape you or use a taperecorder or keep phone messages and notes. You will be deeply embarrassed if you say something that you will regret later.

I need to know exactly what you have filed already, if there are court dates pending and what state/county you live in for me to give you better advice.

You can PM me if you'd like or email me at my user name with hotmail.

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I sent you an e-mail. I have sent VERY few e-mails in my life so I wanted to let you know in case I did something wrong and you didn't get it. Thanks.

starman